Resources

Psycho-education & self-practice

Education is not the filling of a pale, but the lighting of a fire.

~Yeats

Before You Begin

Starting therapy can feel daunting, confusing, a little abstract.

Philosopher Alain de Botton’s 13-minute video offers a grounded and compassionate introduction to why therapy matters—and what it really asks of us. It focuses not on techniques or labels, but on how therapy helps us better understand ourselves, our patterns, and our emotional histories. It’s a beautifully accessible piece of psychoeducation—whether you’re just beginning or reconnecting with the reason you started.

Alain is the founder of The School of Life, an organisation dedicated to emotional wellbeing through philosophy, culture, and self-understanding.

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Attachment

Life begins with attachment. The way our caregivers responded to our evolving needs shapes how we connect to others, understand ourselves, and navigate the world.

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Nervous system & emotions

Our nervous system and emotions are deeply interconnected, influencing how we experience and respond to our surroundings.

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Self states & dissociation

We all have different parts within us. Occasionally, these parts disconnect to protect us. Growth happens when we can safely support inner-collaboration.